Today, my daughter, Carter turns three. Cliches are truisms, and Carter turning three is an essential reminder that time does go by too fast, having children grows your heart ten fold, and the more things change the more they stay the same.
It’s been a year and a half since I wrote this and a lot has changed personally: Beckett has joined us, we have renovated a house, moved out of that house, sold a house, we have added family members and lost beloved family members, and after 10 plus years at Berwick Academy we now call Gould Academy home.
And, a lot has stayed the same globally: race, gender, and sexuality remain issues that are debated and divide us, instead of topics discussed in order to unite as human beings; the Supreme Court will hear cases that have monumental impacts, health care remains inaccessible for far too many, terrorists groups continue to make headlines for unimaginable acts of violence. However, what also remains the same is my insatiable belief that education can transform the world–and now that Carter is one year older, I am more committed than ever before to making my hopes about education become Carter’s reality.
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Carter Bishop at Elk Creek Ranch
A Letter to My One Year Old Daughter About the Purpose of Education
June 15, 2015
Dearest Carter—
It’s a little before 7:00 in the morning. We are all together at Elk Creek Ranch: Mom is sleeping, you are just waking up, and I am trying to finalize an assignment, I assigned to my graduate school students at Lesley University, and who I told that I would do the assignment alongside and let them grade.
I walk to your room, pull you from the crib, and in the cool of a quiet Wyoming morning with you perched on my lap I read through what I have written. Holding you I realize what I crafted sounds nice, touches upon all the right themes, and adheres to the rules of the assignment–but I hate it.
I hate it because it sounds like Something a teacher wants to hear rather than what I feel. I hate it because it feels artificial instead of authentic, and I know I am probably too afraid of being wrong and thus say nothing that is right and what I truly believe. So, I erase every word and begin again under a new premise: what I believe education should be, is what I hope you experience in school; what I believe schools should do is what I hope your education provides.
So, Carter—this is for you, this is what I believe the purpose of your education should be. As your father, and as a teacher and school administrator,…I commit myself to you and these beliefs.
Last November, on the week you turned one, the headlines read:
- Sunday: 300 members of the Sunni Al Bu Nimr Tribe are executed by ISIS
- Monday: One World Trade Center opens, replacing its predecessor destroyed on 9/11/2001
- Tuesday: United States Elections; Mia Love becomes the first African-American female Republican to serve in Congress
- Wednesday: Ebola death toll in West Africa surpasses 5,000
- Thursday: The US Supreme Court agrees to hear cases about the Affordable Care Act
- Friday: Marysville Pilchuck School shooting; a student kills four friends before taking his own life
These headlines contain triumph and tragedy and their dichotomy makes me anxious and confused about the world you will live in and the direction it could head. However, I am an eternal optimist that will always believe education can change the world and schools can transform lives. So what should your school do, stand for, and teach you?
Your school must be a place where you are comfortable being uncomfortable—an environment where you learn how to do hard things well. Your school and teachers should focus their energy on creating learning environments that balance individual readiness, interest, and ability with an academic foundation that challenges you in your individual journey of becoming a self-monitoring, self-motivating, self-adjusting, and self-assessing learner. Your school should be a community where it is cool to be smart, cool to try new things, and cool to be your authentic self.
Your school should promote academic excellence, implicitly and explicitly emphasize character, and provide expansive extra-curricular offerings. Your school must create avenues for artistic expression, athletic competition, student-directed initiatives, and academic exploration. Your school and teachers must nurture the passions you have already unearthed while also providing a myriad of new opportunities for you to explore. Your school must be a place that finds the promise in you and in each and every one of your classmates.
Your school needs to be a community united by shared values, aware of larger global issues, and mindful of divergent opinions; your school must be a learning environment that supports students and encourages them to spend their years struggling with purpose and passion towards a personal aim that serves a common good. Your school must be a community committed to equipping you with intellectual acumen, real world skills, an ethical compass, and the ability to make hard decisions about personal priorities, global issues, and leadership.
Your school must offer you a world-class education yet also provide you with a world of possibilities. Your school must realize that the world is changing at a rapid rate and you will need skills that are both timeless and timely. Thus, your school community and its curriculum needs to focus their attention on creating a culture of excellence, collaboration, trust, resiliency, and problem solving. You need to be inspired by caring teachers who will allow you to learn by doing and will help you become an innovative producer rather than passive consumer of data and resources. Your teachers should challenge and support you; above all else they should develop your capacity to think constructively and participate richly in the world. The education your school delivers must instill creativity, engagement, and entrepreneurship while also promoting the timeless ideals of virtue, service, and citizenship.
In thirteen years you will finish middle school. Seventeen years from now you will be a high school graduate. And in 2038 you will most likely walk across the stage and be handed your college diploma. I do not know what the headlines will read, nor the mode in which they will be delivered. I do not know where you will go to middle or high school, and I do not know what your degree from college will be in, probably because that major doesn’t exist in 2015.
However, I do know that I will not care about what you do, how much money you make, what your politics are, or where you decide to live. Above all else, I know that the education you receive from the schools you attend and the teachers you have will be the reason why you have become the human being our world needs you to be.
School life is real life, so you must always remember not to hold narrow definitions of what school, teachers, and tests are, or can be. The goal of your school is the same as your goal in life: “to make your heartbeat match the beat of the universe, to match your nature with Nature” (Campbell).
The best school is the natural world–it is a classroom with finite resources yet infinite possibilities. There is no better teacher than nature to learn about yourself and to acquire the skills that will be enduring and serve a common good. Your great-grandfather knew these ideas to be true when he left his position at the Lawrenceville School in 1952 to move west and start Elk Creek Ranch. Every summer since then, your family has been sharing Elk Creek Ranch and the simple complexities of the Wyoming wilderness with teenagers from across the country.
Wyoming will be one of your classrooms and Elk Creek Ranch one of your teachers. Together they will test your mind and body, grit and grace, intellectual merits and moral might; together they will teach you to honor the land, know a place that takes care of you and you take care of, and respect yourself as well as all the people and animals that fall under your care. Your school might look different from Elk Creek Ranch—and most likely it will not be located in Wyoming—but the lessons and values it instills should be the same: stewardship of the earth, understanding the difference between needs and wants, knowing the importance of commitment to and sacrifice for community, and how to honor the history you inherit by becoming a leader and leaving a legacy.
Carter–Let your educational journey not be defined by classroom walls or standard assessments. Let your education be endless and your assessments ongoing. Like your heart, wear your learning on your sleeve. Always be comfortable with the messiness associated with not knowing, toiling with great resolve and still failing, and learning that failing when you do what you love is–not failure at all but rather an opportunity—an opportunity to roll up your sleeves in order to till the experience for greater meaning and enduring understanding.
The best things we do, at school and in life, are done together; they are purposeful tasks that enable us to grow individually and as a community. Any job worth doing is worth doing well, and it must been seen through to completion. Carter, your job is to live one lesson well: what you know today is the foundation for what you will learn tomorrow. Let your schooling teach you to become passionate and self-reliant; let your education shape you into a selfless individual committed to universal truths and living a life in the service of others.
Thoreau asked, “What does education do? It makes a straight-cut ditch out of a free meandering brook.” So like the Buddha says, “learn like you are mighty river.”
Dearest Carter– “I am speaking to you from the bottom of my heart. Receive these words into the bottom of yours, and weigh them well” (Tolstoy). As a father, I commit myself to you; as a teacher and administrator, I commit myself to the ideal that the education I desire for you is the experience I want for every student I share a classroom with and every school I work for.
With way more than hope and all my love and support,
Dad
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Andrew, Kyle, and Carter before the days of Beckett
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